Wednesday, March 01, 2006
3/01/2006 06:18:00 AM

Tag: What Were You Doing When You Were Ah Ee’s Age?

posted by Francis Ho

I had noticed this quiet young boy with a pleasant demeanor on a bicycle before at the construction site on previous occasions; selling food stuff to the workers but in my 'busyness' and rush-rush world, I’d never taken the time or trouble to find out more about him. But I did this morning after a site meeting (the building has been completed and currently being fitted out), which finished earlier than anticipated, when I walked up to talk to him. Ah Ee lives in a ‘resettlement housing scheme’ area about 45 minutes cycling time away. Small size for his age, he is thirteen years old and helps to support the family by dropping out of school after primary 6; by selling kuehs (cakes) and food (noodles, burgers, nasi lemak, etc) to the workers from one construction sit to another on his bicycle. The kuehs were made by his mother and he earns a small margin from the other foodstuff which he buys from others. He manages to sell around twenty to thirty ringgit worth in a day. Coming from a privileged background, I cannot even begin to imagine the material things and comforts he had done without that I had taken for granted at that age.

So I tag you all today – “What Were You Doing When You Were Ah Ee’s Age?”
Food for thought isn’t it.

And while you are feeding on that thought, you may want to have a sneak peek at the building that's been fitted out at the moment.




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At that age I was at a boarding school in Kuching. Altough I didn't really have a lot of privileges then, compared to my younger brothers and sisetrs now, I couldn't imagine myself not ging to school and selling kuihs like him.

Well, unker, u really hit the soft spot today :)
at that age, i was a boring nerd - stay home read books all day long :(
Guess I must've got quite a number of you thinkin as apart from 9lives; there's no other comment(s) yet!

The responsibility (or any other responsibilites) of helpin out in the family was the furtherest from my mind at that age when all i could think about was pretty much myself and 'taking'(not giving) was the order of the day.

I'm very interested in what all of you have to say about this twist on the usual 'TAG" game that's going around ... :)

(even as I write; JeremyC has just commented! good on you)
At 13 I was all excited about my new school and friends. Ironic that in today's computer game age, he has his family in mind. Rare find he is. What will his future be like without proper education? ):
I can actually relate to selling kuehs and stuff, but my parents have always emphasized the importance of education. Perhaps I was more lucky than Ah Ee in that sense.

Only four comments and it is already reaching noon. Well, I guess Unker, your topic today really busted their brains for comments ;)
I was studing at that time, with 50cen pocket money each day. I buy kuih with 20cen n the 30 cen for saving.
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Hmmm at Ah Ee's age I was just another carefree freshie in secondary school, getting to know new friends and stuff. And looking like a total nerd with huge round glasses and a ponytail secured with ribbons of different colours from Mon-Fri. Ugh. I have burnt the ribbons to rid me of my fashion crime, but the memories still haunt me. Eeks.
But still, after reading your post, I count my blessings over and over and over again. Can't imagine dropping out of school at that age, seriously.
Showroom looks good!
at 13 years old.. hmmm... I was in Secondary one and like all other kids, running around doing nothing in Victoria School.. finished school and help out in my mum's hawker stall selling prawn noodles and sending food the hot noodles to the ordering companies (aka, noodles delivery).. help wash dishes, clean the floor..

Nothing much..
God bless Ah Ee. It is heartbreaking to learn what young kids are forced to endure these days. There are many poor families living complicated lives out there. But it is inspiring to find out how they cope and survive against all odds. And you are one of a kind to have taken notice of this boy and let him share his story with us.

At that age i went to boarding school, practically locked up for five memorable years. Looking back, life was simple back then, no matter how bad the situation.
I deleted my previous comment cos I saw the wrong age of Ah Ee earlier on :P

What I do at that time ah?
Studying loh.. full time secondary school student, did my Form One in SMB St Anthony, Sarikei :D
didn't worry much about other things :D
Life is simple..
Dunno what is computer at that time..
well at THAT age i was growing out of proportions - my limbs too long my head too big. Awkward man !

Getting over crushes and discovering how enjoyable it was, ashamed to say now, skipping classes.

I always feel very fortunate compared to many children around the region, without a chance to have a decent education.
I guess i lived my life as a normal 13 years old back then, school, homework, exams, a little bit of sports, watching cartoons, hanging out with friends... ordinary stuff...
But dropping off after primary 6 narrows down life's opportunity for that poor young man. I just wish somehow that we can get back to education and at least finish form 3. Nothing much he can do now anyway.
Seriously, i believe the family should provide ah ee the education he needs. but who am I to judge anyway... plus i do not know the whole picture or anything...
well, chance of education thrown away like that, i guess is just not something anyone can swallow.
Hi, Are u interested to see some fotos of kayaking in Spore. I have lots of them, both at Kallang River and Mcritchie Reservoir.
lam chun see - YES I AM VERY INTERESTED! Thanking you in anticipation!
I just realised that my photos are of very poor quality. But a promise is a promise. I will pick the less lousy ones.

I think you will be more interested in video's. I shot some of my son's races. But need to edit away the 'shaky' parts and learn how to put up in the VBlog.
lam chun see - thks. To my limited knowledge www.youtube.com is the most popular option for posting videos.

trust that you don't have to go to too much trouble! so dont worry about it! do what you can and thanks again!
at his age? not working for a living, that's for sure...

interesting showroom - Howard Roark design?
panda - everyone should read Fountainhead ... I don't think FH2o's design can come even close to Howard Roark's but I'm working on it! If there's anything else I'm even more passionate about besides kayaking, its design! :)
wow. I was in school in Hawaii & probably not appreciating it anywhere near as much as I should have (the school, I mean, I always loved Hawaii).
And wearing braces I think, and overly into unicorns, and a total bookworm. Fortunately the one of those three characteristics that stuck was the love of reading.
I walked to school (40 minutes away)and moneywise, I was given RM20 pocket money per month - my mum thought me how to budget the RM20 for the month, I would not get more than that until the next month comes.... one memorable momemnt was in in the middle of that year my dad bought me a bicycle - cut down the distance to school to 15 minutes)- the brand was Raliegh...cost about RM100. It was the happiest moment of my life.

Strangely the younger generation are a bit different now. When i talked about walking to school, they gave me a wierd look... then when I tried to promote cycling to work, people say I am crazy.

Strange...i feel ot of place. Maybe I can join those retirees at India Street and just sit around and wonder about the younger days :(
desmond - i know what you mean but i don't think they're luckier than us as certain hardship helps to build character.

walking or cycling? forget about that for most ppl. and i never bring up the topic of kayaking at dinner or formal functions less they'll think i'm cuckoo! we live in different worlds!
Isn't interesting to note that Ah Ee's "meaning of life" at this point is survival while most of us with a full stomach are more concerned with finding other meanings to our lives.

But how do we fix this inequality in human society? Maybe the answer to this question is the true meaning of life!
batukawa - we do take a lot of things for granted until we open our eyes to what's happening around us

i personally feel that we cannot 'fix' all the problems in this world which happens for a reason. a lot of answers lie within and ppl are lookin everywhere else but there. ah ee's life may eventually be better than all of us combined - who knows? not me


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